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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (8) Thanks(8)   Quote Fraiche2Death Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 30 2013 at 10:41pm
Some people stay up in other's closets & scalps. (weave, no weave, natural, kinda natural) All I think is get a f*cking life. Can't imagine spending my precious time actually being pissed off at what someone else is wearing. We all poke fun but i'll be damned if imma hold a march about it. Smh Disapprove

And lead us to what? I've seen the most upper crust looking women get straight ratchet in these streets. It doesn't make you classy, smarter, or kind. And clothes don't fool anyone. If you are a hot ass mess it will show. And your inner beauty will shine even in slutty wear. This is dumb. 
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I think of this thread no different than the thread about trends we wish would die.

But if the birds dressed better who would entertain my sister and I in public? It's a catch 22 for me.
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Originally posted by _ConcreteRose_ _ConcreteRose_ wrote:

BTW, OP. Who are we supposed to be demanding respect from?

that's what i'm wondering.

big leap from thinking something is a tragic fashion choice and not respecting them.  also, i don't believe everyone who dresses scantily is seeking attention.  some people do it because they can.  it's their body and they're proud of it.
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butt cuff?

I 'fraid CryLOL
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Op, do those women make you feel embarrassed to be black?

Edited by afrokock - Jul 31 2013 at 3:08am
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Originally posted by yurika975 yurika975 wrote:

Sadly there will always be some who mistake drooling with respect and admiration. So many are upset with the negative way that black women are portrayed in rap videos, but so many women still show up to be in them!


True because no one showed them true admiration and respect at home as girls.   Really, nothing is ever going to change about this until more black girls have fathers that raise them and give them the attention they deserve to show them what they should look for as they mature.   That's the only thing that ever going to change this.
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Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

i would still like to know how we are supposed to lead the way...
I guess it depends on how you see leadership I believe in leadership in my everyday life so I lead by example- I help people when I can... by telling them to cover there A$$ when I am in line at the grocery store. I also happen to be a part-time image consultant who offers fashion and image advice to thoes in need. And sometimes unsolitcitedOuch
So whoever want to write a letter to Beyonce and other females in the industry Im with you all the way.... and you can pm me if you need more support on ideas on how you can help improve the community


really, if you gave me unsolicited advice about "covering my azz", then i would cuss you out. that is extremely rude and judgemental of you.

seriously.

and don't give me BS about dressing modestly= instant respect. b/c it's not true, esp. for black women.
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^^ Lmao....  I feel that.  Unsolicited advice/criticism is usually always a bad thing.  Usually the if you don't have anything nice to say and you weren't asked for your opinion you should shut up applies.

I also agree about the dressing modestly as a black woman doesn't get you respect.   There are some people who will never respect a black woman simply b/c of what she is.  Period.  However, I'm still not for azzez hanging all out either.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Op, do those women make you feel embarrassed to be black?

Why you startin?LOL
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Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

[and don't give me BS about dressing modestly= instant respect. b/c it's not true, esp. for black women.
word and thanked. i've been fully covered, dressed professionally or what have you and still cat called at. 

if people/men want to disrespect women they will do so-- regardless of the woman wearing booty shorts or an abaya. 
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