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    Posted: Oct 15 2013 at 2:30am
I have a family member that is ordered to pay Child Support for his two daughters.  Since day one of his order he has ensured to keep a job so that he can supply insurance for them as well as have his salary garnished. He got layed off from work and since he has three other kids that live with him, times got tough financially.  He went ahead and filed a modification with the court due to his hardship (That was the right thing to do) and since he couldn't afford a lawyer or file, asked the court for a deferral. but his ex wife found out and purposely avoided being served (She called him and let him know her plans). He suggested to have his daughters come and stay with him so that he can make things easier for her until he can find a job and get caught up with support but she refuses to have her daughters stay with him outside of their court order.  She now has sent him threats that since he has not paid any child support that she is going to have him arrested.  I am not a lawyer and I tried to assure him that since he reported his situation to the court he should be fine but I am not a lawyer so who knows what kinds of thing scan happen in these situations.  This just angers me because he is clearly trying to do the right thing.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote DiorShowGirl Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 15 2013 at 2:50am
wow she really is being a spiteful person....
he should still contact a lawyer just to be on the safe side of things cause these types of situations are very tricky and sticky.  he should keep record of all her doings also...at least he is trying to work with her and doing this by the law and it looks good for him. but courts nowadays seemed to always side with the mother even if she is acting like a trifling no good mother...

wait to read some more advice on here and good luck to him and his children...ashamed of her also using the kids like this...
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5 kids?

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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


5 kids?



Gurl come sit next to me......
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Yes 5 kids...two with his exwife and he remarried and has twins and a newborn.  She got primary custody of the Children and he sees them every two weeks on the weekends.  They have built relationships with their other three siblings when they can and in the past he has tried to increase his visitation since they live less than 5 miles away from one another but she is really good at avoiding service which after a certain amount of days will allow cases to get vacated. And the more time he gets with his girls the less money he would have to pay for child support.  Whats more important? Time with your children coupled with provision.  Or just provision with little to no time.  I say give these girls a fair chance to develop a healthy relationship with their dad as a good man who can give them paternal guidance.

I'm just tired of well meaning people getting the raw end and the abusers staying on top.


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He should record his phone calls.
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Why does this topic seem so familiar? Maybe it was someone else.
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Perhaps because it happens so often which is sad to hear. Do you remember what the outcome was for them if any?

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He needs to be snipped. I can't stand males like him that keeps populating with no regard to his or anyone elses pockets. The procedure is quick and cheap. Cheaper than paying for FIVE kids
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Krystal, you are entitled to your opinions based on your experiences that is fine.  But let me ask you this?  Why would a man who had no children out of wedlock, who planned for a promising future prior to his divorce, who before he got layed off was making enough money to support all children.... but because life happened, and divorce happened, and because his new wife wanted to have his children, would snipping him be the best solution?  His regard for his or anyone elses pockets was made when he got educated and landed a wonderful career.  The layoff was not a choice he had to make.  I pray that you are in good financial standings and nothing ever happens to you that can affect you and your loved ones financially, times are unpredictable. 
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