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    Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 7:38pm

Disclaimer: I know you're going to ask why I am involved with these people  but please make your judgements objectively.

I was going to take a shower at a  gym with a male counterpart of mine when a mutual friend of ours decided to come along too.  Mutual Friend does not shower often and as as result sometimes gets me sick from germs . When he said he was going to the showers he did not specify what side he would be using, and I was ambivalent about him going along except for the fact that I told my friend I could respect our mutual friends desire to keep hiself clean. Said mutual friend is a cross-dresser and registered sex offender .

As we approached the gym, my male counterpart (non-offender) started cracking jokes about how the cross-dresser and I would both be going into the womens restroom (I guess he thought it was funny because he already knows how I feel about that) and as we got closer to approaching the gym the male counterpart kept making jokes even going so far as to say to the cross-dresser " tell me what tiffany's booty looks like". Around the same time my male counterpart was joking about the cross-dresser using the restroom I expressed out loud that I joke the jokes were gross and asked him politely to encourage the cross-dresser to use the mens side. He asked him to but basically saw the whole thing as a joke and said that the cross dresser had won a lawsuit against the city to use the restroom. I was unsure if the gym qualified as being under the same law but he said it did.

We make it to the gym, the cross dresser checks in, the staff doesn't check his name, we both use the women's restroom with little problem.

Later in the day I bring it up and tell him that I really did not like him joking around about that or using my body parts in a sexual context. He says that he started joking around to warn me that the cross-dresser was going to use the women's restroom because I seemed to be under the pretense that the sex offender "truly" wanted to take a shower and would even dare so much as to be forced into the men's side.

I told him he was a liar and that if he wanted to warn me, it would have made sense to say something directly to me. I told him I didn't blame him for our mutual friend coming along because of scheduling he was going to tag along anyway but felt that his jokes were inappropriate and that I felt like he basically succeeded in talking our friend of even attempting to use the mens side.


 He said that I basically invited mutual friend along in the first pace, I (sometimes) refer to 'him' as a 'she' which means that I entertain his delusion that he is a female and that my offense at the sexual jokes was "childish and immature".

He said that our mutual friend uses politics and the law by claiming he needs to use women's restrooms because he is transgender but his real intentions are to look at women if they let him and some women find it a turn on to display themselves to him and that's why he felt the need for the joking.

I'm not very "street smart" according to him". Y'all don't have to give me the jezebel dot com treatment where white women are encouraged to not use much critical thinking or common sense, but really.

Am I being childish? I know the law, am I not being street smart?



Edited by TiffanyinTX - Aug 03 2013 at 7:57pm
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I wouldn't have gone into the bathroom with him but that's just me. What what his sexual offense?
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Girl of all things to be offended about you're offended about your friend making that joke? I'd be more offended by the other friend wanting to be around you with such bad hygiene habits if he supposedly gets you sick all the time. Dead
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Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Girl of all things to be offended about you're offended about your friend making that joke? I'd be more offended by the other friend wanting to be around you with such bad hygiene habits if he supposedly gets you sick all the time. Dead


It wasn't just one joke. He just kept going and going after I already said it was tasteless.

The guy was  **not making any sexual jokes, it was my male counterpart who added all the sexual undertones to a situation I did not feel that comfortable with.

Rape and child PICS.


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Originally posted by TiffanyinTX TiffanyinTX wrote:

Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Girl of all things to be offended about you're offended about your friend making that joke? I'd be more offended by the other friend wanting to be around you with such bad hygiene habits if he supposedly gets you sick all the time. Dead


It wasn't just one joke. He just kept going and going after I already said it was tasteless.

The guy was making any sexual jokes, it was my male counterpart who added all the sexual undertones to a situation I did not feel that comfortable with.

Rape and child PICS.


That is so creepy. OMG. Dead I can't believe you went into the bathroom with him. Cry Why is he your friend?
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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Originally posted by TiffanyinTX TiffanyinTX wrote:

Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Girl of all things to be offended about you're offended about your friend making that joke? I'd be more offended by the other friend wanting to be around you with such bad hygiene habits if he supposedly gets you sick all the time. Dead


It wasn't just one joke. He just kept going and going after I already said it was tasteless.

The guy was making any sexual jokes, it was my male counterpart who added all the sexual undertones to a situation I did not feel that comfortable with.

Rape and child PICS.


That is so creepy. OMG. Dead I can't believe you went into the bathroom with him. Cry Why is he your friend?


I went in first. He signed into the gym and came in about 3-5 minutes later. I think he knew I was uncomfortable. I know him through the male counterpart..
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you need to find new friends, seriously
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Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Girl of all things to be offended about you're offended about your friend making that joke? I'd be more offended by the other friend wanting to be around you with such bad hygiene habits if he supposedly gets you sick all the time. Dead


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I don't understand his reasoning for saying you aren't street smart. He sounds annoying and the other guy is a creep. Did he rape a child?
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Your other friend is suspect too. How many dudes hang out with a cross dressing rapist? The fck?
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