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    Posted: Sep 08 2013 at 3:43pm
Im serious, I need help you guys. Real honest help. Im so afraid to. I almost feel like I'll never be able to fully walk away. Please help me someone. I have no support.
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Ruby where have you been! Jesus We've been looking for yo. Have you checked your PMs?

Im glad to hear you from you. What has happened now?

BHM  this is legit, no $hits and giggles PLEASE.
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Well for starts we were evicted. My husband hates me everything sucks idk. I need to just leave him alone but i can't. Im so stupid. Everything hurts so bad. I can't tell my counselor. I can't tell my friends. Idk what to do because i honestly love him even though. He's being so hurtful, i don't want to live without him
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Leave!!!
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Where are you staying now?

What has he done to you? 

You are not stupid you recognise the need for help. Please tell your counsellor about what's going on with him.

ETA Did you read the PMs, there is help out there. Please contact any one of the organziations. and respond to India's PMs


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Tell your counselor Ruby. Don't feel ashamed to tell them what is going on. He/she is trained to help with situations such as these. The counselor will try to help you and also try to help you get out of your abusive situation at your own speed.

You don't want to leave him because you love him but you know you need to leave. Look at how badly he treats you. You're asking for help because you know you deserve more.Heart
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With in laws. He got so mad last night because i was talking and he thought i was talking about what he didn't want to talk about. He kept cutting me off and getting mad threatening me then he started choking and hitting me trying to kick me out. Then he was trying to apologize and got mad saying he was being stereotypical making promises after abusing me. I was talking and he wanted me to stop breathing. Then he grabbed his stuff and said he was leaving after i said i didn't want to hear his sorry. He left, i tried to reach out to some hotlines but i was too upset to talk. Then he came back and said he was leaving in the morning. He's still here i started asking him questions. He went off saying he hates me. And the reason we aren't together is because i talk. I don't know how to stfu
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I just messaged her before i posted this. Its so hard. And im afraid he'll get in trouble if i tell my counselor
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I feel like i must make guys abusive because my ex was & my husband has only physically abused me
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Have mercy! Where is he now? Look Ruby you need to get out, which organization does "extractions" (for lack of a better word). Do you have your cell phone with youm? MAKE THE CALL. Just say to them what you're typing to use on BHM. 

ETA India hasn't come online as yet. But she has a firend/colleague/contact who can help you. Where's the baby. You do not make anyone harm you, they harm you. You are a victim not them



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